Wednesday, February 5, 2014


In my last post I wrote about what women want on Valentine's day…here’s to men now!!

Send him a dinner invite at his workplace, with timings et all. Set up the table with the best linen, crockery, cutlery, Champagne glasses etc. But of course it should be a candlelight dinner and you should be dressed to kill. Present him the menu card when he sits on the table. Aphrodisiacs like caviar, chocolate, strawberries should be on the menu. Start with Champagne the best aphrodisiac and you can be sure of no complaints. The dessert can sure be had in bed!  
Some gifts cost little to nothing, while others are expensive. Whatever your desire or budget, you can be sure to get interesting gifts that will be remembered for years to come. Gift your man the latest technology phone, I-pod or laptop and he’ll love you for it. Men are Gizmo freaks and love to explore anything new. As a matter of fact to really make the day special, and one to remember, give a gift personalized. You could even do monogrammed stationery or better still some bed linen or just an embroidered pillow, or monogrammed bed linens. You could even gift him a cut out of a heart from some nice Cardboard, cover it in layers with some nice paper, make it look fancy, be creative and don’t forget to add your own personal sentiment to it. Trust me it will be in his memory box years.

The most creative thing you can do for Valentine's Day, is decorate a huge piece of white poster board with memories. You may take chocolate wrappers that you may have saved from the first date, love notes received from your man, a receipt from a dinner date that you may have paid for (since he was broke), a stuffed animal from one of those claw machines (which may have cost him at least 500Rs to win), movie tickets, and many other such reminders of the special times you have spent together. Pin them up in the shape of a heart and it’ll be wonderful to relive the romance and go down memory lane together. 

Prepare an Italian meal with your own hands, play some background Italian music, enjoy it with a bottle of Italian wine and end it up with cups of amaretto flavored coffee for a taste sensation - top it off with a sensuous scented bubble bath for two.
Insert sweet surprises into red heart shaped balloons before inflating them - add a small Valentine’s message too. Tie daintily with red ribbons and attach to his computer chair, tie in all places where he goes in the morning for him to find it on Valentine’s morning. He’ll love you for it and then pretend you are not married and plan a date in the evening.

Whatever way you do it, remember to say “I love you” as often as you can as for a Woman it is probably one of the most treasured gifts she could receive. It doesn't cost a penny and your love is essentially the best gift you can give of yourself.